January 30, 2008
Santa’s Up in Smoke…Emma had a bit of a tough weekend.  I heard the full story last night on the telephone.  I’m sorry Mem - I won’t lie to you ever again.  I promise.  Just so we’re square, there isn’t a tooth fairy or Easter bunny either.Emma: “Hi Cristin.  Did you know that there isn’t a Santa Claus.”Cristin: “Oh no, Emma, I’m so sorry.  How did you find that out?”Emma: “So you knew all along?  And you didn’t tell me?  You’re my sister.  Isn’t that like lying a little bit?”Cristin: “Yes, I knew.  I found out when I was right about your age.  Santa is something that parents tell kids about because it’s a fun fantasy.  Mom and I didn’t mean to lie to you.”Emma: “Even Adam lied to me, last Christmas he said he heard something banging around on the roof in the night.  He’s Jewish and he still lied.”Cristin: “Oh Emma, I’m so sorry, Adam didn’t mean to lie to you either.”Emma: “Mom thought I was suspicious about Santa, and I truth or dared her because I thought I was ready to know, but really I wasn’t ready.  I even cried a little.” She’s headed off to college next week… 

Santa’s Up in Smoke…

Emma had a bit of a tough weekend.  I heard the full story last night on the telephone.  I’m sorry Mem - I won’t lie to you ever again.  I promise.  Just so we’re square, there isn’t a tooth fairy or Easter bunny either.

Emma: “Hi Cristin.  Did you know that there isn’t a Santa Claus.”

Cristin: “Oh no, Emma, I’m so sorry.  How did you find that out?”

Emma: “So you knew all along?  And you didn’t tell me?  You’re my sister.  Isn’t that like lying a little bit?”

Cristin: “Yes, I knew.  I found out when I was right about your age.  Santa is something that parents tell kids about because it’s a fun fantasy.  Mom and I didn’t mean to lie to you.”

Emma: “Even Adam lied to me, last Christmas he said he heard something banging around on the roof in the night.  He’s Jewish and he still lied.”

Cristin: “Oh Emma, I’m so sorry, Adam didn’t mean to lie to you either.”

Emma: “Mom thought I was suspicious about Santa, and I truth or dared her because I thought I was ready to know, but really I wasn’t ready.  I even cried a little.” 

She’s headed off to college next week…